9 Clear Hints Your Gemini Man is Not Interested

A Gemini man flirting with you or chatting with you isn’t always a sign of interest, but if he avoids you and never initiates contact, that’s a definite sign he’s not interested.

When he’s not interested, your Gemini man will seem bored around you, never text back, or actively ignore you whenever you’re around. His lack of interest will be incredibly obvious.

Your Gemini man will not listen to you and may even be rude. He might talk about you behind your back or act hostile toward you.

1. He Never Texts

A Gemini man distancing himself now and then isn’t always a red flag. He just gets busy, and he has a lot of people he needs to keep in contact with.

If your Gemini man never texts you and ignores you when you message him, he might not be interested.

One of the signs a Gemini man is testing you is that he’ll play a little hot and cold with texting. He might message you constantly, then hold back.

However, it’s a sign he’s not interested if he goes completely cold for extended periods.

If a Gemini man has stopped texting after showing initial interest, that is sometimes a sign he’s lost interest. If he’s just busy, he’ll come back eventually. If he missed one text, he’ll respond when you message again.

When he never texts, that’s a sign he doesn’t want to talk to you. If he was interested, he’d try to chat with you because Gemini men love to talk!

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2. He Seems Bored Around You

What turns off a Gemini man? If he finds someone boring or non-stimulating in any way, he won’t be interested in them. Gemini men want exciting people around them.

You might notice that your Gemini man constantly changes the subject when you’re trying to bring up a topic in a group. This is likely because he finds you, or the topic, uninteresting.

A Gemini man might appear visibly bored whenever you’re around. He’ll yawn, stare off into the distance, or generally have an unenthusiastic expression.

If your Gemini man seems to light up around others, but that shine dulls around you, he’s bored. He is showing you that he’s not interested and doesn’t particularly like being around you.

3. He Talks About You Behind Your Back

Gemini men tend to gossip, so a Gemini man will likely talk about you to his friends regardless of how he feels about you.

However, a Gemini man who isn’t interested will say incredibly unflattering things about you behind your back.

A Gemini man who isn’t interested won’t care about what he says about you to others and won’t care if you hear about it!

If a Gemini man isn’t interested but doesn’t know how to tell you that directly, he may also tell his friends and hope they will drop hints.

He might also drop hints by purposely saying rude things about you to others when he knows you’re around.

If you only ever hear that your Gemini man is saying rude things about you to others, he’s not interested. If he was, he’d say more positive things about you!

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4. He Ignores You

A Gemini man might signal that he’s not interested by completely ignoring you. Gemini men aren’t always direct about their disinterest, but it should be evident if you’re paying attention!

A distant Gemini man isn’t always distancing himself because he’s uninterested. If he ignores a few messages or doesn’t reach out, something else might happen. If he ignores you while you two are together, he’s likely not interested.

If a Gemini man constantly leaves you on read when you text him, never returns your calls, and ignores you when you’re at the same party or with friends, he’s showing you he’s not interested.

A Gemini man who is interested in you will try to pay attention to you. He’ll be happy to see you when you show up somewhere. He won’t avoid you or distract himself with something else while you’re talking to him.

5. He Avoids You At Parties

If a Gemini man avoids eye contact or walks out of the room any time you show up at a party, that’s a sign he’s not interested in you.

A Gemini man might have to be around you sometimes if you two share friends or frequently go to the same events. That doesn’t always mean he’ll be friendly toward you, though!

A Gemini man who isn’t interested in you might not want to fake being friendly or polite when you’re around.

Avoiding you at parties might be the best way he knows to keep the peace and not openly offend you in front of all your friends.

If a Gemini man is interested, he might approach you when you show up to a party or, at the very least, be open to you joining in on a conversation with him.

A Gemini man who is not interested will try to stay away from you if he can. He’ll join a different group if you come to talk to the people he’s chatting with or wander off to another room and try to lose you.

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6. He Never Invites You Out

One of the signs a Gemini man is not interested is that he’ll never invite you to hang out, not even as a friend.

Gemini men love hanging out with other people. Your Gemini man might not invite you to every event, but he’ll invite you out sometimes if he’s even remotely interested in you!

If your Gemini man finds you attractive and wants to spend time with you, he’ll invite you to parties, ask you to hang out, or see if you’re going to join him at the bar.

A Gemini man who never invites you to anything is clearly not interested in you. If you share a group of friends and he always excludes you when he has parties or other get-togethers, he doesn’t want anything to do with you.

7. He’s Rude To You

A Gemini man giving mixed signals is pretty common, whether he’s interested or not. If he ignores you now and then, that’s one thing, but if he’s completely rude to you when you interact, he’s not interested.

Gemini men are generally pretty friendly. They are social people, and even if they aren’t always the most sensitive or emotionally aware, they tend to be charming, and others enjoy being around them.

If your Gemini man goes out of his way to snub you, makes rude comments, or is even more insensitive toward you than he typically is to others, that’s a clear hint he’s not interested!

A Gemini man might be rude to you as a way of pushing you away. He will sometimes outright tell you he’s not interested, but even if he doesn’t do that, he might try to make it very obvious.

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8. He Flirts With Others

One of the signs a Gemini man just wants to be friends is that he’ll never flirt with you, and he’ll also flirt with others in front of you.

Gemini men will be flirtatious with their friends at times. Their usual way of interacting can also seem flirtatious. If a Gemini man is trying to show you he’s not interested, he’ll tone down on the flirting.

It will be evident that your Gemini man is only toning himself down around you. He’ll still flirt with other people around you if you’re out at a party. He won’t care if you see him doing it, either.

A Gemini man pulling away and flirting with others more is a sign he’s lost interest. He’ll make it very clear that he isn’t just busy or avoiding relationships for the time being. He’ll only avoid flirting with you.

9. He Doesn’t Listen

Gemini men are incredibly social. Mercury, the planet of communication, rules Gemini, so Gemini men love to talk!

Some Geminis are not always the best listeners, but a Gemini man who is interested in you will at least try to listen. He’ll want to hear about your interests and listen if you’re explaining an exciting topic to him.

A Gemini man who zones out a couple of times might still be interested, but one who never listens to you or actively ignores you is hinting that he’s not interested!

If your Gemini man isn’t interacting while you talk to him, he might not be listening. If he’s constantly on his phone or walks off while you’re talking to him, that is a very clear sign he isn’t interested.

If your Gemini man is interested and doesn’t listen to you sometimes, he’ll try to do better if you talk to him about it. He won’t try to change his behavior if he’s not interested.