9 Tricks To Hurt Gemini Man (Use At Your Own Risks)

If you and your Gemini man are close, shutting him out, talking bad about him behind his back, and spilling his secrets to others are all things that will hurt his feelings.

You’ll upset your Gemini man if you don’t follow through on commitments too. If you try to control him or make him feel stupid, that will also bother him!

Gemini men can be forgiving, and they know people make mistakes. If he knows that you are intentionally doing things to upset him, that will hurt him more than anything else.

1. Shut Him Out

What happens when you ignore a Gemini man? He might not notice at first if you two don’t see one another every day. He’ll notice if you two talk frequently and you start shutting him out.

When a Gemini man loves someone, he wants to connect with them. He’ll love talking to them and spending time with them. He will likely message you often and will love hearing how you’re doing.

A Gemini man will be hurt if you start distancing yourself from him. If you refuse to tell him when important things happen in your life or completely shut him out when you’re upset, he’ll feel like you don’t trust him.

When a Gemini man is hurt about you shutting him out, he might react by messaging you even more. He’ll be incredibly hurt if you continue to ignore him, especially if he texts you about something important.

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2. Talk Behind His Back

What makes a Gemini man mad? Oddly enough, Gemini men hate it when others talk about them behind their backs!

Gemini men are known for being gossips, but most of the time, they aren’t doing it to be malicious. If you insult your Gemini man behind his back and he finds out about it, he’ll be hurt.

Your Gemini man will be upset if he finds out that you always insult him when he’s not around. If you tell him you love him and treat him well in person but talk about him behind his back all the time, he’ll feel like you don’t care.

A Gemini man will be hurt if mutual friends tell him that you’re always saying rude things about him. If you start spreading false rumors, he’ll be agitated.

3. Spill His Secrets

If a Gemini man tells you a secret, he’s opening up to you and being vulnerable. He might love socializing with everyone, but he only opens up to certain people.

Your Gemini man will typically tell you when he doesn’t want you to tell anyone else something he confides in you. He’ll be incredibly hurt if you go against his wishes and tell other people.

Gemini men understand that people make mistakes, so accidentally spilling one secret won’t hurt them. If you constantly tell others everything he tells you, your Gemini man will become upset and may stop trusting you.

How does a Gemini man act when hurt? One of the reasons you should be careful about hurting him is that he has a vindictive streak. If you spill his secrets, beware! He might spill yours as well.

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4. Break Promises

Gemini men can be pretty forgiving people. If you accidentally break a promise or can’t follow through on something once or twice, he’s unlikely to care that much.

Constantly breaking promises you’ve made to your Gemini man might start to hurt his feelings, though. This is especially true if you break significant promises.

If you promise to attend an important event with your Gemini man or help him with a project he’s working on, he might be upset if you back out at the last minute or forget entirely.

Breaking one promise might not be a big deal, but breaking all your promises will be! Your Gemini man will start to feel like you don’t respect him. He’ll stop trusting you, which will hurt if he cares about you.

Gemini men might be all over the place, but it’s nice to have a couple of people they can rely on. Breaking your promises when he thought you were one of those people will deeply upset him.

5. Don’t Follow Through On Commitments

If you are in a relationship with your Gemini man and you’ve committed to certain things, he will be incredibly hurt when you don’t follow through on those commitments.

As mentioned, Gemini men can be pretty flexible. Not all of them will necessarily expect monogamy in a relationship, but yours will expect you to follow through on that commitment if you have decided to be exclusive.

If you have an open relationship, he’ll still be hurt if you’re secretive, dishonest, or neglect your relationship in favor of others. He’ll expect you to commit to your relationship and make an effort, not ignore him completely.

Your Gemini will be willing to work with you if you need to adjust your relationship. He’ll understand if you no longer want to keep a certain commitment, but you must talk to him first.

Your Gemini man will feel disrespected when you break or ignore commitments without talking things through. He would prefer you talk to him first if something isn’t working. He’ll be hurt knowing you don’t respect him enough to discuss important things with him.

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6. Try To Control Him

Air signs like Gemini value their freedom. They can go with the flow and won’t mind doing what others want now and then, but a Gemini man doesn’t want to feel like anyone is trying to control him.

Try to control your Gemini man by restricting who he talks to or where he goes. If your Gemini man hangs out with friends you don’t like, get mad at him and tell him he can’t see them.

You won’t typically be able to actually control your Gemini man. He’ll still do the things he wants to do. If he cares about you, he’ll be upset that you’re trying to control him in the first place.

Be careful when you hurt a Gemini man. He might forgive some things, but if you’re constantly trying to control him and restrict his freedom, he might leave you.

7. Make Him Feel Stupid

What will hurt a Gemini man? If someone he loves and respects tries to make him feel stupid, that will likely upset him.

Gemini men love learning new things and gaining information. They can admit when they don’t know something, but a Gemini man would always rather you teach him what he doesn’t know instead of judging him for not knowing it.

He’ll be hurt if you humiliate your Gemini man in front of other people he respects. He’ll become upset if you go out of your way to make him look stupid and show others the things he doesn’t know.

Even if your Gemini man doesn’t actually feel stupid, the fact that you’re trying to humiliate him will hurt him. He likely won’t understand why you’re trying to make him feel stupid.

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8. Insult His Communication Skills

If you want to know how to hurt a Gemini man, insult his communication skills! Being an effective communicator is one of the things a Gemini man is proud of.

Mercury, the planet of communication, rules Gemini. This is one of the reasons they love to talk and are typically good at it too!

Your Gemini man will be hurt if you tell him that you don’t like how he speaks or that he’s terrible at communicating with you. Tell him that you can’t understand him or that he’s horrible at reaching out when you need him to.

If your Gemini man loves talking to you, he’ll be upset that you don’t also enjoy talking to him!

How do you know if a Gemini man is upset about you insulting the way he talks or communicates? He might be uncharacteristically quiet around you or may start ignoring you entirely.

9. Be Rude To His Friends & Family

Arguing with a Gemini man and being rude to him won’t always hurt his feelings. He can handle insults and angry words. He will be hurt if you try to hurt his friends or family, though!

Gemini men sometimes get a reputation for being spacy or disloyal, but they can be very caring friends. They don’t want the people they love to be upset.

If you are rude to your Gemini man’s friends and family, that might hurt his feelings. If he loves you, he’ll be upset when he finds out that you’re not trying to get along with the other people he loves.

He might try to talk to you about this at first. If the behavior persists, he’ll be incredibly hurt! A Gemini man will not appreciate you trying to hurt his loved ones at all.

What happens if you upset a Gemini man because you’ve been rude to the people he cares about? You must be careful because he may just cut you out.