10 Reasons Why Your Pisces Man is Slow To Commit

Pisces men live for love and romance. They can be affectionate and empathetic. If you wonder why a Pisces man won’t commit, look at his emotional state.

Your Pisces man is slow to commit when he feels insecure. He is emotionally driven and needs to feel reassured that you care.

Getting a Pisces man to trust you is crucial. Your Pisces man commits when he is sure you are into him. He is also slow when past emotional baggage gets in the way.

1. Unresolved Trauma

One of the biggest obstacles to getting a Pisces man to commit is his past traumas. His worst traits surface when a Pisces man is affected by past traumas. He becomes suspicious and manipulative.

He shows you he loves you but sabotages the relationship because he fears commitment. Your Pisces man may be slow to commit to a relationship because past traumas still haunt him.

Pisces men are sensitive and emotional. They are traumatized by situations others may not take to heart. Validate a Pisces man’s emotions, and don’t tell him he’s overreacting.

You can’t rush a Pisces man who is slow to settle down because of trauma. He needs time to heal from his past wounds before he’s ready to commit to you. A Pisces man scared of love fears being hurt and abandoned.

When will a Pisces man commit? A traumatized Pisces man won’t make serious steps in a relationship until he has worked on his healing and overcome his trauma. His relationship remains a rollercoaster.

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2. Fear of Missing Out

Pisces men fear missing out when they are slow to commit. Men born under this sign either rush to commit or hesitate because they are perpetually uncertain.

A Pisces man with a fear of missing out comes close to commitment and then backs away for no apparent reason. When he’s afraid to commit despite wanting affection and attention, your Pisces man may fear limitations.

He imagines as soon as he settles down, he will find someone new and regret his decision. No matter how perfect you are, a Pisces man who fears missing out on something new shies away from commitment.

His fantasy dream woman is always one step ahead, and you can’t compete with a figment of his imagination. He hesitates to commit when insecure and falls in love with an ideal no one can live up to.

He convinces himself the grass is greener to avoid the complexities of committing in a relationship. You can’t lure a Pisces man easily if he is afraid of missing out.

3. He’s Not Over His Ex

One thing no woman wants to hear is that a man she loves still has a thing for his ex. But when a Pisces man is slow to commit he may not be over his ex. He puts her on a pedestal, and hindsight is twenty-twenty for a Pisces man.

A Pisces man who is not over his ex is easy to spot. He hesitates to define the relationship. He brings his ex up and tells stories from his past. He gets nostalgic when he talks about her.

He may show his feelings and become teary when he talks about his ex. He talks about the one who got away. When he’s not over his ex he gets upset when she posts about new love interests.

He seems obsessed and doesn’t let go of the past. The best way to make a Pisces man forget his ex and focus on you is to show him you understand his feelings better than anyone else.

Leaving a Pisces man alone when he pines for his ex is a crucial strategy. He needs time to think about how much he misses you when you aren’t around. If he’s not over his ex he constantly compares you.

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4. He’s Shy

There is no way to avoid the truth about Pisces men; even when madly in love they remain shy. Pisces men have two modes of commitment. They rush into love or take things slow and hide behind their sensitive feelings.

A shy Pisces man will open up to you when he feels secure. Reassure him you care about him. He opens his heart to you when he feels comfortable. Be patient with a shy Pisces man.

He won’t commit to you until he’s ready. You can encourage your Pisces man by appealing to his emotional nature and sensitivity. He may be shy, but he opens up when he knows you are trustworthy.

Crying in front of a Pisces man or showing vulnerability helps him open up to you. He becomes more willing to commit when he sees you take risks to show your soft side.

A Pisces man never initiates contact when he’s shy. Don’t assume he isn’t interested in you. He acts distant and avoids commitment when he is inhibited.

5. He’s Suspicious

Your Pisces man may be afraid to settle down because of one of his major flaws. Although he is sentimental and sensitive, Pisces men are notorious for being suspicious.

Their feelings are easily hurt, and they take everything personally. A Pisces man takes innocent mistakes to heart. He is alert for any red flag that may make him shy away from settling down.

You can encourage your Pisces man to overcome his suspicious nature when you are honest and consistent. He may be possessive, but you can work through his suspicious nature in time.

Pisces men are shy about settling down when they suspect you are unfaithful. You don’t have to give a Pisces man reason to be suspicious of your intentions. His imagination runs wild, and he assumes the worst.

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6. He Fears Responsibility

Pisces men go out of their way to sweep you off your feet. One thing a Pisces man is reluctant to do is to settle down when he expects responsibilities to follow.

Pisces men have a secret fear that once they settle down, the party ends, and a relationship becomes hard work. He wants to prolong the playful and carefree faze of a relationship before he commits.

You can make a Pisces man commit if you show him your relationship continues to be fun and playful. Share the responsibilities so your Pisces man won’t feel overwhelmed.

Your Pisces man backs down from anything that requires too much focus and seriousness. He slows down in love, work, and even his hobbies when things become too serious.

Do Pisces men take things slow? When a Pisces man is reluctant to commit it is because he fears responsibilities he can’t handle.

7. He’s Financially Unstable

Your Pisces man can be slow to commit for practical reasons. If he is looking for work or underemployed, your Pisces man doesn’t commit. He avoids commitment when his finances are messy.

Pisces men want to create a perfect romance for you. If a Pisces man is insecure about his finances, he puts on the brakes and avoids settling down.

He delays committing to you when he is unsure of his ability to nurture your needs. He may use fear of financial instability to hide deeper fears of not wanting to be hurt.

What scares a Pisces man away from commitment is his desire for relationships to be like the fantasies he imagines. Financial hardships hinder a Pisces man’s feelings and slow him down.

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8. He’s Insecure

When a Pisces man doesn’t throw himself into a relationship immediately, he is often insecure. He may slow down because he doesn’t want to commit out of fear of sabotaging the relationship.

Your Pisces man can be insecure and avoids facing things that trigger his deep emotions. You can help him overcome his insecurities by being transparent and supportive.

Show your Pisces man unconditional love, and he makes progress committing to you. Your Pisces man can be unsure of himself and assumes he isn’t good enough for you.

His insecurities can keep him locked into a vicious cycle of avoidance and sabotage. Your Pisces man’s insecurities can make him distant and reluctant to settle down.

9. He’s Depressed

If your Pisces man is slow to commit, he may be depressed. A Pisces man’s sensitivity and vulnerable nature make him prone to bouts of depression. Even if your Pisces man is not diagnosed with clinical depression, he often falls into depressed phases.

He needs encouragement and emotional support when he is depressed. Your Pisces man can be depressed and sinks into a low spot when upset. He turns away from the people he loves and becomes distant.

A depressed Pisces man doesn’t open up easily. He craves intimacy and connection, but he doesn’t want to risk the emotional stakes of a relationship. He can be reluctant to settle down because he assumes he is unworthy.

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10. He’s Indecisive

Your Pisces man may be slow to commit for a simple and comparatively innocent reason. Pisces men are slow to commit to relationships because they are indecisive.

They start to get serious about a relationship and then get cold feet. You can be encouraging, but a vacillating Pisces man needs time. Show him you are supportive and patient.

He needs to choose his own and not be under pressure. Pisces men know when they are being manipulated. An indecisive Pisces man dances around commitment, but in time, he settles down.

How long does it take a Pisces man to commit? The answer depends on his confidence and emotional health. A Pisces man with emotional baggage undermines his potential in his relationship.