10 Hints Your Gemini Man is Serious (These Never Fail)

Your Gemini man will try to be clear when he doesn’t want a serious relationship. He might not always tell you when he’s ready for a serious one, but it will be clear he is.

A Gemini man who is serious about you will be willing to open up more. He’ll connect with you emotionally and tell you all his secrets, even the ones that might not make him look good.

Your Gemini man will make you a priority. He will make time for you, plan dates, and act more generously toward you.

1. He’s Willing to Open Up

How do you know if a Gemini man cares about you? If he is willing to open up and be vulnerable, he’s serious about you. He cares about you and wants you to get to know him better.

Gemini men are incredibly social and talkative. That doesn’t mean they are willing to talk about everything, though. You might notice that your Gemini man avoids specific personal topics at first.

When your Gemini man stops avoiding those topics, he takes your relationship seriously. If he is ready to open up and talk about things he usually avoids, he cares about you and wants to form a strong connection.

Opening up can be difficult for a Gemini man. He might be slow initially, but he’ll be willing to do it when he’s serious about your relationship.

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2. He Introduces You to His Friends

When a Gemini man is serious about you, he wants you to meet his friends and family. He will introduce you to the people closest to him and start incorporating you into his social circles.

A Gemini man might bring you to parties and introduce you to people he knows when you first start dating. That’s different than introducing you to his friends, though.

Your Gemini man likely has many different social circles. The friends he parties with aren’t always the people he is closest to. The friends he considers family are the ones he’ll introduce you to when he’s serious about you.

A Gemini man introducing you to his family is also a sign he’s serious. He won’t let you meet the people that matter most to him if he sees you as a fling.

3. He Connections Emotionally

One of the signs a Gemini man is serious about you is that he will try to connect emotionally. He won’t just focus on your physical or intellectual connections.

Like all air signs, Gemini men can be emotionally distant sometimes. When a Gemini man is serious about you, he will try to work on that. He’ll want to connect emotionally, even if it’s difficult sometimes.

When a Gemini man says I love you, he means it. He usually expresses love with his words. He might tell you that he wants to connect emotionally, too. Trust him when he says this, even if it’s challenging to do it at first.

If your Gemini man goes out of his way to talk about his feelings and listens when you talk about yours, he’s serious about you. When he wants that emotional connection, he likely wants commitment too.

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4. He Stops Flirting with Others

How do Gemini men act when they are in love? One sign your Gemini man is serious about you is that he will stop flirting with other people, especially when you’re around.

Your Gemini man might always be a little flirtatious, but you’ll learn the difference between him just being friendly and charming and him actually flirting. He will stop actually flirting with others once he’s found “the one.”

A Gemini man will also listen to you and try to respect your feelings when he’s serious about you. If you tell him that you don’t like it when he says or does certain things to other women, he’ll take that to heart.

Your Gemini man definitely won’t outright flirt in front of you when he’s serious about you. He’ll be too focused on you to see anyone else.

5. He Makes Time for You

One of the signs a Gemini man has feelings for you is that he will make time for you. No matter how busy he is, he’ll always be able to spend some time with you.

Your Gemini man will be more mindful of how much time he spends with you when he’s serious about you. He’ll try to plan date nights, hang out with you, and even text message you more often.

Gemini men aren’t always good at making time for friends and even casual partners. They spontaneously run off to a party and forget that they made plans with someone. They won’t always remember to invite the people they care about.

When a Gemini man is serious about you, he’ll be more mindful of your time together. He’ll be less likely to forget about plans. He’ll bring you along when he wants to go to a party.

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6. You’re a Priority in His Life

A Gemini man in love will make you a priority in his life. Even if he has a lot going on, he will make you feel important to him.

It’s unrealistic to expect you to always be a Gemini man’s #1 priority. He will make you one of his top priorities when he’s serious about you, though.

You’ll know you’re a priority in your Gemini man’s life because he’ll be sure to schedule time for you. He’ll have time for date night no matter how busy he is. He’ll also come to events you invite him to, even if they aren’t necessarily things he would like.

When you are a priority in your Gemini man’s life, he’ll also be there for you in an emergency.

If you’re sick, your Gemini man will come home from work early to take care of you. If you’re having a terrible day, he’ll do something to cheer you up instead of going out with his friends.

7. He’s Not Scared of Giving Up Freedom

A Gemini man’s weakness in love is often his fear of losing his freedom. One reason he won’t always commit to a relationship is that he worries about giving up any amount of freedom or independence.

When a Gemini man is serious about you, that won’t scare him anymore. He might realize that he doesn’t need to give up his freedom. He might also realize that giving up a little freedom is okay sometimes.

A Gemini man will want to share his life with you when he’s serious about you. It won’t feel like he’s giving up his freedom. It will feel like he can go out and be free with you.

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8. He Plans Things with You

When a Gemini man is ready to commit, he’ll discuss the future and make plans. This is a big deal since Gemini men aren’t always big planners!

Your Gemini man will likely be spontaneous, but he’ll make more of an effort to schedule things with you too. If he sets aside a specific night each week for date night, he’s serious about you.

If a Gemini man starts talking about the future with you and trying to plan things further out, he’s serious about you. He plans to be around that long and sees you in the future.

Your Gemini man will want to make long-term plans when he’s serious about you. Planning things won’t be scary when he truly loves you and wants to be with you.

9. He’s Generous Toward You

Gemini men have a generous side, but only some people see that. They can also be selfish and self-absorbed, but a Gemini man will be more mindful of your needs when he’s serious about you.

If your Gemini man is always generous toward you, he cares about you and takes your relationship seriously. He’s not always generous toward everyone, so it means something if he’s generous toward you.

Your Gemini man will be generous in many ways. He’ll likely give you small gifts and be generous monetarily, but he’ll also be generous with his time. He’ll make more time for you if that’s what you need from him. He’ll be generous with his affection, too!

A Gemini man will meet your needs when he’s serious about you. He’ll never let you go without, especially if he can give you something.

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10. You Know All His Secrets

You’ll know you have a serious relationship with a Gemini man when he tells you all his secrets. When he trusts you with every side of him, he cares about you deeply and is likely committed to your relationship.

Gemini men are multifaceted people. They sometimes have certain secrets they share with one group of people and others they share with another group.

When your Gemini man is serious about you, he’ll share everything with you. He won’t keep certain secrets to himself. He will want you to know all sides of him, including all of his secrets.