Secrets To Make Your Virgo Man Talk About Feelings

Virgo men operate like computers. They focus on logic and reason, stifling their feelings as much as possible.

Asking your Virgo love how he feels is an overwhelming question for him. He shuts down or talks around the subject of emotions. He isn’t trying to be evasive but doesn’t know how to convey emotion.

Take a gradual approach if you want him to talk about his feelings. You can make him comfortable enough to talk about feelings if you use caution and go at his pace.

Role Model

Actions speak louder than words for Virgo men. If you want a Virgo man to be open about his feelings, the first step to take is to role model for him. Don’t be too dramatic or expressive.

Use emotional language and state your feelings when you talk to him. Avoid going to extremes. Instead, label your feelings in everyday conversations.

When you tell him about your day at work, mention when you felt stressed or excited. Talk about how relieved you felt when your meeting with a supervisor went better than expected. Label your emotions when you talk to him.

You can make a Virgo man more conscious of his feelings if you are calm and speak rationally but mention your feelings in conversation with your Virgo man.

Often, a Virgo man denies feelings when he is uncomfortable with emotional language. When you role model emotional language, you help a Virgo man find the words to express himself.

Some women will never date a Virgo man because they are so emotionally detached. Yet Virgo men have much to offer. They need help adopting the emotional language, which you can role model.

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Ask About Physical Comfort

Virgo men aren’t comfortable talking about emotions, but they are attuned to their physical perceptions. Ask about his physical comfort if you want a Virgo man to segway into talking about feelings.

Your Virgo man talks about his feelings as an extension of talking about his physical comfort. Instead of saying he feels anxious, he will say his stomach hurts. When he loves you, he talks about physical perceptions related to his emotions.

He tells you he has butterflies in his stomach, or his heart beats faster when you are near him. Your Virgo man rationalizes his feelings so that he can avoid vulnerability.

You must be patient and ask him about his physical sensations if you want a Virgo man to talk about his feelings. Your Virgo man will be more open to talking about feelings if he can frame his emotions physically.

A Virgo man feeling down may talk about numerous body aches and pains. Men born under this sign don’t talk about pain, sadness, and depression. Instead, they talk about insomnia, discomfort, and physical sensations.

For a Virgo guy, emotions are off-limits as a topic for conversation. Yet you can make a Virgo man open up about his feelings if you ask about his health, comfort, and appetite.

Ask About Stress

Virgo men are often high-strung. They don’t easily talk about their feelings, but if you ask about their stress, they open up about the things on their minds. They are often stressed because they are perfectionists.

Virgo men don’t like to complain, so they stifle their feelings. Yet if you ask a Virgo man about his stress and anxiety, he reveals how much has been weighing on him. You may be surprised to learn how stressed he has been.

Your Virgo man may shut down emotionally when stressed out because he doesn’t want to complain and be a burden. Virgos are practical. They work on fixing a situation that bothers them than complain about it.

You can assume a Virgo man is more stressed out than he lets on. But if you ask him about his stress, he begins opening up. The reason he’s distant is not that his feelings have changed, but because he is stressed out by various problems.

A Virgo man feeling guilty talks about his inner turmoil. He feels stressed and can be encouraged to vent about what is bothering him if you ask about what is stressing him.

This magic will make your Virgo man want a relationship with you.

Talk About His Desires

You can also get your Virgo man to talk about his feelings if you ask him about his desires. Virgo men are the least passionate in the zodiac. They don’t readily use terms like desire without prompting.

Yet Virgo men are also honest. They talk about their desires and feelings if you bring this term up to him. Talk to a Virgo man about his desires and wishes.

Don’t be surprised if your Virgo man downplays fantasies and desires, this is his nature. He is pragmatic and doesn’t like to indulge in fantasies and daydreams.

You can encourage your Virgo man to talk about his feelings if you hint at your desires and inquire about your Virgo man’s wishes. Ground talk of his desires in practical matters so that your Virgo man will be more responsive.

You may wonder how does a Virgo man test you, but men born under this sign don’t play games. He acts evasively because he’s protecting himself. You can get him to open up by talking about his desires.

Focus On Health

You can encourage a Virgo man to open up about his feelings if you focus on his health. Your Virgo man is health-conscious and attuned to subtle changes in his body.

Ask your Virgo man about his sleep, appetite, and other routines. He may start a conversation talking about stomach trouble and then proceed to disclose he is anxious about something.

He may be filled with energy and staying up all night because he’s falling in love, and you’re on his mind. Your Virgo man doesn’t always make the connection between physical sensations and emotions.

Yet when you talk to him about his health, you can encourage a Virgo man to make this association. He becomes more expressive when you ask him about his health and wellness.

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Ask About His Goals

Your Virgo man is more likely to talk about concrete ideas like goals and plans for the future. Ask him about his goals, and your Virgo man tells you about his feelings.

Initially, he may rattle off a list of things he wants to accomplish. But the more a Virgo man speaks about his goals, the more he reveals his emotions. You can tell what he loves and desires because of his priorities.

You can learn what your Virgo man is emotionally invested in based on his goals. Usually, his top priorities relate to his work and health.

Yet Virgo men set goals that correspond to their relationships. He wants a better job to have a stable foundation to provide for his partner.

A Virgo man wants to improve his health so he can stay active and enjoy a long life with a partner or family. If you ask a Virgo man about his goals and he responds by telling you about goals for the relationship, it’s a sign he cares.

But even if he doesn’t respond this way, your Virgo man’s emotional desires are linked to his priorities. You can glean a lot about how your Virgo man feels about you based on how he describes his values and priorities.

You know a Virgo man is serious about you when he specifically talks about his future goals with you. If his priorities include having a home and family with you, he is conveying how he feels practically.

Help Him Unwind

If you want a Virgo man to open up about his feelings, you’ve got to help him unwind and relax. You can help him become more vulnerable and expressive if you give him a massage or help him relax over a healthy meal.

Your Virgo man carries tension in his shoulders and neck frequently. You can help him relax by releasing this tension when you hug him or rub his shoulders.

When he is relaxed, your Virgo man is more likely to talk about how he feels. He still avoids vulnerable conversations about deep feelings. You may be disappointed if you expected him to wear his heart on his sleeve.

Anytime a Virgo man talks about his feelings, he’s taking a significant step. Virgo men must work up to sharing their feelings, even on a surface level. A Virgo man feeling hurt may reveal his emotions when he’s relaxed.

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Don’t Pressure Him

Never put pressure on a Virgo man if you want him to be more open about his feelings. Your Virgo man resists mind games and doesn’t fall for emotional manipulation.

If you pressure him to reveal his emotions, your Virgo man will shut down. He doesn’t like being cornered. You don’t want to end up in an antagonistic relationship with him.

Virgo men go quiet and distance themselves from women who try too hard to get them to open up. If you are too direct or persistent when you try to get him to talk about feelings, your Virgo man will disconnect from you.

What a Virgo man wants to hear is that you support him and are willing to wait for him to get comfortable. He doesn’t want to be asked about his feelings repeatedly. If he’s evasive, bring the topic up another time.

You may think you’re seeing signs a Virgo man is not interested in you when he’s just being aloof. Virgo men are not driven by emotion. Getting them to share feelings is a daunting task that requires practice and patience.