How To Deal With Your Virgo Man’s Silent Treatment

Don’t get upset when your Virgo man gives you the silent treatment. Remain calm, especially when reaching out to him.

Ask your Virgo man what’s wrong. Don’t push him or be clingy, though. Let him know that you’re willing to offer comfort or support but that you’ll also give him space if that’s what he needs.

Sometimes, your Virgo man will need reassurance. Other times, he’ll need time to himself. Once he tells you what he needs, give it to him! That will help him to stop giving you the silent treatment.

Don’t Get Upset

If a Virgo man is suddenly distant, try not to get upset with him. There are many reasons why your Virgo man might be giving you the silent treatment. Getting upset won’t fix anything.

If you are upset about your Virgo man’s silent treatment, discussing things with someone else is usually a good idea. You want to be level-headed when you approach your Virgo man.

Work through your anger or sadness before you talk to your Virgo man. You can talk about how his silent treatment makes you feel later, but you want to focus on getting him to talk to you first.

If you are upset when you approach your Virgo man, that might make things worse. If he just wants space, he might feel like you’re angry for no reason. If he’s overwhelmed, your sadness will make him feel more stressed.

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Remain Calm

Even if you aren’t sure what to do if a Virgo man ignores you, remain calm. Getting angry will make things worse.

Don’t jump to conclusions and assume the worst. Do not work yourself up imagining why your Virgo man might be giving you the silent treatment.

You can consider why your Virgo man might be ignoring you, but don’t let it work you up. Try to remain calm and focus on fixing things instead.

If you can’t be calm when you talk to your Virgo man, wait. Do what you must do to calm yourself down before talking to him.

If you are upset after an argument and your Virgo man is giving you the silent treatment, take some time for yourself. Give both of you some space so you can calm down.

Ask What’s Wrong

If you want to know what to do when a Virgo man goes silent, reach out to ask what’s wrong. Be calm, and don’t accuse him of ignoring you. Just show concern.

Wait until you are calm and in a good place before you reach out to your Virgo man. If you need space, that’s fine! You want to be at your best so you can have a good conversation.

When you ask your Virgo man what is wrong, make sure it’s coming from a place of love and concern. Don’t accuse him of intentionally ignoring you or giving you the silent treatment.

Tell your Virgo man that you’ve noticed a change in his behavior or that it feels like you haven’t seen or spoken to one another recently. Ask him if something is wrong and if there is anything you can do to help.

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Give Him Space If Needed

Why does a Virgo man withdraw? Sometimes, he wants space and doesn’t always know how to ask for it.

Sometimes when a Virgo man goes silent, it’s because he’s overwhelmed or wants time alone. A Virgo man won’t always tell you he needs space, though.

When you reach out to your Virgo man, ask him if he wants space. Let him know that you’re worried and would love to talk to him, but you can give him time alone if that’s what he needs.

Make a point of giving your Virgo man space if you think he needs it. If you don’t, he’ll pull away more.

Let your Virgo man know that he can ask for some time alone. That might stop him from giving you the silent treatment. Instead, he’ll ask for space and be open about his needs.

Be Willing to Apologize

Why does a Virgo man give the silent treatment? Sometimes, he will ignore you if you’ve pushed a boundary or done something to upset him.

If you know why your Virgo man might be upset with you, apologize immediately. If you’re right, he’ll appreciate the apology! If you’re wrong, he will likely explain the actual problem.

Seeing that you’re willing to apologize will help a Virgo man go to you when there is an issue. If you get defensive, he’ll give you the silent treatment. If you’re open and tell him you’re sorry, he’ll talk to you when you upset him.

If a Virgo man disappears for days after an argument, he might just be waiting on you. Be willing to reach out and apologize if you want him to stop giving you the silent treatment.

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Offer Comfort & Support

Sometimes, the best way to react to a Virgo man’s silent treatment is to offer comfort and support. If he doesn’t want space, that might be what he needs instead.

If your Virgo man says he doesn’t want space, offer support instead. See if he needs a shoulder to cry on because he’s overwhelmed.

Some comfort might be what a Virgo man needs after an argument. If he gives you the silent treatment after a fight, reach out to offer affection and let him know that you still care. Comfort him and make him feel better about whatever you argued about.

Be willing to support and comfort your Virgo man the way he wants. When you can do that, he’ll go to you instead of giving the silent treatment when he’s upset.

Ask If He Wants Help

Virgo men aren’t good at asking for help. They try to do everything by themselves and often end up overwhelmed because they take on too much.

If your Virgo man is ignoring you, he might be feeling overwhelmed. He might be giving you the silent treatment because you don’t help around the house enough, but he may also ignore everyone when feeling overwhelmed in general.

Ask your Virgo man if he wants your help with something. If you know that he usually does more chores than you do, offer to help out around the house more. Tell him you want to help and take some things off his shoulders.

A Virgo man might not always take you up on your offer, even if he does help. Knowing you’re willing to help can make him feel better and stop giving you the silent treatment.

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Offer Reassurance

Sometimes, a Virgo man’s silent treatment is a sign that he’s feeling insecure and withdrawing from you. A Virgo man won’t always tell you that he needs reassurance, but the silent treatment can be a sign that he does.

If your Virgo man withdraws after an argument, apologize and tell him you still care about him. Reassure him that one argument isn’t going to ruin your relationship.

If you notice your Virgo man always gives you the silent treatment after you spend time with a certain male friend, reassure him and let him know he has nothing to be worried about.

Sometimes, you’ll know what your Virgo man is insecure about, and you’ll be able to reassure him based on that specifically. Other times, you should just reach out and let your Virgo man know you love him.

Don’t Push Him

You won’t always know what to do when a Virgo man stops talking to you. Sometimes, he wants space. Other times, he wants reassurance. Do not push him to do what you want when you first approach him.

If your Virgo man doesn’t reply immediately, don’t push it. He might stay in his room for a while or ignore your texts if he wants time alone.

If you offer space, you must give it to your Virgo man. He will feel disrespected if you say you’ll give him space but continuously push him to talk to you.

If your Virgo man says he doesn’t want comfort or that he doesn’t want to talk, respect that. Keep communication open, but do not push it.

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Don’t Be Clingy

Try not to be clingy with your Virgo man. This is a good way to avoid getting the silent treatment in general.

If you constantly cling to your Virgo man, that will overwhelm him. If he thinks he can’t have space or time alone, he might start avoiding you and giving you the silent treatment instead of talking to you.

When a Virgo man ignores your text, don’t keep texting him. If he doesn’t answer when you call, do not keep calling. Don’t be clingy with him, even if his silent treatment is frustrating.

Your Virgo man will spend time with you when he cares about you. He will talk to you about what is bothering him eventually. Give him space when he needs it, and he won’t give you the silent treatment.