9 Clear Hints Your Virgo Man is Not Interested

Virgo men can sometimes seem aloof at first, but they’re very caring people underneath. If they like someone, they will show their kinder side soon enough!

A Virgo man who is not interested will maintain his distance. If he really doesn’t like you, he’ll probably ignore you completely, no matter how much you try to get his attention.

Your Virgo man will likely make his disinterest clear if he knows you are interested. He’ll try to avoid doing anything that might lead you on and may even seem extra cold to you because of it.

1. He’s Incredibly Cold

If a Virgo man doesn’t want a relationship but knows that you do, he might begin to act colder around you than usual.

Pay attention to how a Virgo man acts after you flirt with him or show interest. If he suddenly becomes colder toward you, that’s a sign that he doesn’t return your feelings.

Virgo men get a reputation for being aloof, but they can be warm and caring people! If your Virgo man is still cold toward you after you two have known one another for a while, it’s likely because he’s not interested in you.

Don’t worry too much if he’s cold after one or two meetings. If your Virgo man is still cold after weeks or months, it might be time to move on.

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2. He’s Never Helpful

One of the signs a Virgo man doesn’t like you is that he’ll be incredibly unhelpful. Most of the time, Virgo men can be nurturing and generous people. If someone asks for help, they’ll gladly give them that help.

If you ask your Virgo man for help and he always turns you down or ignores you, then he’s not interested in you.

Most Virgo men will gladly help out anyone who needs it. If a Virgo man doesn’t like you, he will likely avoid helping you entirely.

3. He Seems Bored Around You

How do you know when a Virgo man doesn’t like you? He will visibly appear bored whenever you’re around. He won’t even try to pretend that he’s listening to what you’re saying or that he’s having a good time.

Virgo men want to be intellectually stimulated and engaged when they chat with people.

They can feign interest if they’re talking to someone important (such as their boss), but generally, they will act bored if they aren’t interested.

If your Virgo man is bored, he will seem detached from your conversation. He won’t ask questions or do anything to keep the conversation going. He might even make an excuse to walk off mid-conversation.

Pay attention to how your Virgo man acts with you compared to others. If he seems happy and engaged talking to others but bored when talking to you, he’s not interested.

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4. He Doesn’t Want To Chat

Virgo men might seem shy at times, but they love to talk! Mercury, the planet of communication, rules Virgo, so it makes sense that Virgo men would be excellent communicators.

Your Virgo coworker who likes you will gladly chat with you when he has the time. He might not go out of his way to talk to you all the time, but he’ll be open to chatting when you two aren’t busy with work.

If he doesn’t like you, he won’t want to chat. If he doesn’t have to talk to you, then he won’t.

Your Virgo friend will likely seek you out because he enjoys chatting with you. If you’ve made your interest in him clear recently and he doesn’t return those feelings, you might notice he’s not as chatty.

A Virgo man who is not interested might unconsciously show that by not talking to you because he doesn’t enjoy talking to you.

A Virgo man trying to purposely show his disinterest will make it incredibly obvious that he doesn’t want to talk to you.

5. He Won’t Look At You

If a Virgo man is distant now and then, that doesn’t always mean he’s not interested. Pay attention to how he reacts when you walk into a room or show up to an event he’s at.

A Virgo man who is interested in you will likely catch your eye as soon as he notices you. You might see him staring now and then.

A Virgo man who is not interested in you will never look your way. If you try to catch his eye, he’ll completely avoid eye contact. He won’t care when you enter a room and may not even notice in the first place.

When a Virgo man doesn’t like you, he won’t feel drawn to you. He won’t care how beautiful you are or how interesting whatever you are doing is. He’ll avoid looking your way altogether.

If you’re dressed to the nines and doing everything that should impress him on paper, but your Virgo man won’t look your way, then he’s not interested in you.

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6. He Ignores You

A Virgo man ignoring you might indicate that he’s not interested in you. Most of the time, Virgo men are polite. They’ll make small talk if needed and won’t purposely be rude to people.

It will be undeniable when a Virgo man doesn’t like you because he won’t care about being rude. He will not listen to a single word you say, even if you’re desperately trying to make him pay attention to you.

If your Virgo man always seems to have his head in the clouds while you’re talking, he’s not interested! Virgo men are typically pretty good listeners, so it will be obvious when he’s ignoring you.

You might also notice that your Virgo man ignores you when you try to get his attention. Even if he hears you calling his name when you see him somewhere, he’ll pretend like he doesn’t so that he doesn’t have to talk to you.

7. He Avoids You In Public

Why does a Virgo man pull away sometimes? Virgo men will distance themselves for many reasons. If a Virgo man completely distances himself to the point where he avoids you in public, then he’s likely not interested.

One of the signs a Virgo man is not interested in you is that he will not want to be seen with you. If he has been showing interest in private, this is also a sign he might be playing you.

A Virgo man who is not interested in you won’t say hello when he sees you at the gym or a coffee shop. If you show up to a party he’s at, he might go into another room when you try to approach him.

If your Virgo man knows that you like him and you aren’t taking any of his hints that he doesn’t like you, he’ll be incredibly persistent about avoiding you. He won’t go to places he knows you’ll be, even if you have mutual friends.

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8. He Never Asks About You

A Virgo man who is not interested in you will never ask you questions about yourself. He might make small talk if he needs to or ask things he must know if you two work together, but that’s it.

Your Virgo man won’t care to know personal details about you when he’s not interested.

One of the ways he shows interest is by trying to get to know someone better and constantly asking them questions, so he definitely won’t do that if he’s not interested.

A Virgo man who is not interested in you will never ask others about you, either. Even if he knows you’ve been sick or that something else is going on in your life, he’s unlikely to ask mutual friends how you’re feeling.

When he’s not interested, your Virgo man likely won’t really listen when you talk about yourself, either. He won’t care to know anything about you that he doesn’t need to know.

9. He Ignores Calls & Texts

If a Virgo man has stopped talking to you temporarily, that’s not necessarily a bad sign. If he makes a habit of completely ignoring all your calls and texts, though, he probably doesn’t like you.

A Virgo man pulling away for a couple of days or missing a couple of texts isn’t cause for alarm. Sometimes, he gets busy! Most Virgo men will return your call or answer your text eventually, though.

If your Virgo man ignores every single text you send, no matter how important it is, then he’s not interested. If he won’t answer any of your questions, it’s because he doesn’t want to talk to you.

A Virgo man who is not interested in you will never call or text you unless he absolutely has to. If you two work together, he’ll only talk to you about work. He’ll ignore any messages outside of that.